LAW OF THREE (31)
LOVE, A NON DUALISTIC EXPERIENCE.
"In phenomenological terms,
love is a non dualistic experience. This is the reason why its is
only with great difficulty that love enters into any "understanding".
Love is neither equality nor otherness, neither one nor two. Love
requires differentiation without separation; it is "going"
toward "the other" that rebounds in a genuine "entering"
into oneself by accepting the other within one's bosom."
Raimon Panikkar
Love is the ultimate reconciling force. Love differentiates the lover and the beloved to unable both to arise above themselves and abide in each other in a triadic self. Lover and beloved are "inter-abiding." The sufferings and joys interpenetrate each other.
Every active force in a triad can only
be understood in relation to the other two. Father-mother and
son-daughter are mutually necessary forces in the triad of procreation. The father-mother finds meaning and identity
in the experience of "the relationship" with the son-daughter and
the son-daughter finds meaning in the experience of the relationship with father-mother.
Father-mother-son are three poles of a same
reality which manifests in their common heart feeling as a result of being
in a relationship.
WE ARE BOTH IN CHRIST
The same Spirit and dispositions
that are in Christ are present in us, inspiring us with the same
willingness to open ourselves to everybody's sufferings, in so far as
we capable of bearing them. Moreover we are not just individuals.
We are individual and social in our very being. We cannot be
individuals without being totally united with everybody else, and we
cannot be united with everybody else without being an individual
member of the mystical body of Christ. T. Keating.